My Wish For You

In Motherhood, Parenting by Jen18 Comments

To all of my friends and readers, I wanted to let you know that I will be taking a few days off this week. Hopefully in order to make some good memories with my children.

Truthfully, it’s about a fifty fifty draw how all of this will go down.

Funny story about that, yesterday I sat all of my children down so we could discuss how there would be NO fighting over this Christmas break from school.  I informed them that if they did fight there would be less than pleasant repercussions for their fighting.

I felt like the conversation had gone well until about one minute after I had finished speaking my 7 year old daughter looked at me and asked, ” Mom I think we need to make sure we have a good definition for fighting”.

I know that this season can be overwhelming as we try to finish off all that is on our to do lists. I found this poem tonight and thought I would share it with you.

Twas The Night Before Christmas

Written by Karen Spiegler

Twas the night before Christmas, when all thru the abode
Only one creature was stirring, & she was cleaning the commode.
The children were finally sleeping, all snug in their beds,
while visions of Nintendo 64 & Barbie, flipped through their heads.

The dad was snoring in front of the TV,
with a half-constructed bicycle propped on his knee.
So only the mom heard the reindeer hooves clatter,
which made her sigh, “Now what is the matter?”

With toilet bowl brush still clutched in her hand,
She descended the stairs, & saw the old man.
He was covered with ashes & soot, which fell with a shrug,
“Oh great,” muttered the mom, “Now I have to clean the rug.”

“Ho Ho Ho!” cried Santa, “I’m glad you’re awake.”
“your gift was especially difficult to make.”
“Thanks, Santa, but all I want is time alone.”
“Exactly!” he chuckled, “So, I’ve made you a clone.”

“A clone?” she muttered, “What good is that?”
“Run along, Santa, I’ve no time for chit chat.”
Then out walked the clone – The mother’s twin,
Same hair, same eyes, same double chin.

“She’ll cook, she’ll dust, she’ll mop every mess.
You’ll relax, take it easy, watch The Young & The Restless.”
“Fantastic!” the mom cheered. “My dream has come true!”
“I’ll shop, I’ll read, I’ll sleep a night through!”

From the room above, the youngest did fret.
“Mommy?! Come quickly, I’m scared & I’m wet.”
The clone replied, “I’m coming, sweetheart.”
“Hey,” the mom smiled, “She sure knows her part.”

The clone changed the small one & hummed her tune,
as she bundled the child in a blanket cocoon.
“You’re the best mommy ever. I really love you.”
The clone smiled & sighed, “And I love you, too.”

The mom frowned & said, “Sorry, Santa, no deal.”
That’s my child’s LOVE she is trying to steal.”
Smiling wisely Santa said, “To me it is clear,
Only one loving mother is needed here.”

The mom kissed her child & tucked her in bed.
“Thank You, Santa, for clearing my head.
I sometimes forget, it won’t be very long,
when they’ll be too old for my cradle & song.”

The clock on the mantle began to chime.
Santa whispered to the clone, “It works every time.”
With the clone by his side Santa said “Goodnight.
Merry Christmas, dear Mom, You will be all right.”

Sometimes we need reminding of what life is all about. Especially at times during the Holiday season, when all we seem to do is clean and bake and shop and and and and and and and…. You get the picture, I’m sure.

So stop for a moment and hug that little one so special, whether he/she is 2 or 22, or even older than that. For they are the Gift that God gave us in life…and what a gift to be treasured, far above any other! May the real meaning of Christmas be with you all this year, is my prayer.

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  1. I needed this!

    I’m also laughing about the clear definition of what fighting is. Scarlet would certainly ask that.

    Three of us have been felled over the last week by a wicked cold. Last night with Cassidy up coughing, and the cat coughing up a hairball, and Cassidy thinking that it was Des coughing up his dinner, and bolting out of his bed… And Scarlet upstairs in our bed. It’s just.. comedy. This time of year is hard, but when we stop to think about it, being all together, and warm, and able to laugh about hairballs is just about what it’s all about.
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      Ok, that is a hilarious story! I have been there in a sleep deprived state racing around thinking someone is dying or severely ill. As a parent I now am armed with SO many stories just like yours that you just can’t make up!
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  2. Merry Christmas to you! I plan on taking a few days off also. I love the poem. I was thinking about writing a Night Before Christmas parody last night but didn’t have the time. This version of the classic was great. I hope my kids (and yours) will refrain from fighting this week.
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      I was going to write one too and then luckily I found this. It was perfect! Glad you enjoyed it as well.

      Hopefully we all survive…..

      Merry Christmas to you and your family!
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